Are you building each other up or tearing each other down?
You dreamed your partner would cheer you on the successes that inspire your spirit – so you can be your best. You hoped to be that person for them.
In the beginning, the two of you found joy in doing things together – expanding your horizons and enjoying each other’s company. Yet now, you and your partner seem stuck in this dissatisfying rut.
Somehow, things seem to have drifted off course. Will you be able to achieve the hopes and dreams that you once had when you first decided on your commitment to each other, or else choose something different? Some of your dreams seem like a faded picture, and getting on the same page as partners seems challenging.
At this point in your relationship, things seem like a win-lose situation. You wonder, “Can we create the joy and excitement in life that we had hoped for with each other?”
Let’s make your relationship a Win-Win.
Therapy can help you sort out the issues that keep you apart. We will start by discussing your individual histories and more about your life together. Couples therapy provides a time for each partner to openly express their feelings about what is wrong.
Communication without judgment is essential – playing the blame game gets us nowhere. We will examine each person’s needs and wants for their relationship and life. Then, we can determine how the ‘needs’ fit in with your relationship and how what you want from your relationship can work for both of you.
Couples can feel more support for what matters to their partner, resulting in greater happiness in their relationship. We will work through problems and initiate behaviors and activities designed to help bring you closer as you rediscover those dreams you had together.
With couples therapy, you can sustain a winning relationship.
Creating a lasting and loving relationship requires work, open communication, and understanding each other’s needs. Don’t get to the point where all seems lost.
Let’s start the process today.